Fetishes Explained: BDSM

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Of all the fetishes out there, BDSM is perhaps one of the most well-known, and misunderstood. The popular fetish recently gained exposure thanks to the Fifty Shades of Grey films, though exposure is about the only thing the BDSM community can thank those films for as they did a wonderful job of disastrously misrepresenting the BDSM community and probably did more harm to the public perception of this fetish than good.

To start with, lets define what BDSM actually means. The anagram itself can stand for multiple sets of principles related to BDSM culture, including Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. However, not all those who practice BDSM necessarily take part in all of its associated sub-fetishes, think of BDSM as more of an umbrella term for multiple different thematically similar sexual practices.

In the real world, BDSM is often practiced by consenting couples who like the thrill of either losing or gaining complete control over a sexual encounter, and is considered a trust exercise above all else – couples who practice BDSM safely and properly often find the experience highly fulfilling and it can bring two people closer together in ways that could not be conceived of otherwise.

But the question remains – why do people get a thrill out of BDSM-related practices, such as bondage? The answer lies in human psychology, and whilst the exact explanation remains unclear, control is a definite factor. One common theme among many practitioners of BDSM is the feeling of control that it gives, either to the dominant who has full control over a scenario, or a submissive who can get pleasure out of pain but can control when the pain stops at any time. For many, it is a rewarding experience.

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Posted: April 13, 2020 Tags: bdsm, Bondage, fetishes, Used Accessories, used Basques, Used Sex Toys & Dildos,

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